ED may be a man’s problem, but it is a couple’s
concern. The support and love of a wife/partner can encourage
a man and help him seek treatment. This section is for the
spouses and partners of the men who are suffering from ED.
As a partner , it is important you recognise your role in
providing support and reassurance.
Your
role as a partner/spouse
Erectile dysfunction, or ED, isn't only a man's problem,
it also affects you: his partner. Your support and reassurance
that he is not alone, is thus essential. The feeling of
alienation that accompanies ED makes it a difficult subject
for men to talk about. However, the truth is that ED is
a very common occurrence: in the United States of America,
erectile dysfunction affects about 30 million men to some
degree.
ED is not a result
of anyone's fault and neither is it "all in the man's mind".
The truth is, in most cases, ED is associated with a medical
condition and is treatable. As his partner, you are in a unique
position to encourage an ED patient to seek treatment.
One viable treatment
is CAVERTA - a tablet that helps most men respond to sexual
stimulation when taken an hour before sexual activity. By
informing him about CAVERTA (sildenafil citrate), you can
help your partner take the first step. Let him know that you're
interested in his treatment and willing to help in any way.
Set an appointment
to see the doctor and offer to accompany him. At the doctor's
clinic, show interest in the ailment and its cure. Ask the
Doctor more about CAVERTA, and take the first step in joining
the millions of others who've rediscovered romance and intimacy!
Supporting
your partner
After discovering that your partner has ED, follow this four
simple guidelines to show him that you care:
Face
the problem…
The most important thing that both of you need to accept
is the fact that he has ED. It may be a difficult and
embarrassing topic to talk about, but communication
is essential at this stage. Most men may be unwilling
to seek help for ED even when they know it's a problem.
Studies around the world show that women acknowledge
heath related problems quicker then men. Hence, it is
likely that men are less likely to seek treatment for
ED. You have to help him face the problem, encourage
him to talk about it and give him the courage to see
a doctor. With your support, your partner can realize
that ED is a physical problem - not a sexual or masculine
shortcoming. This will make it easier for him to seek
a solution and thus regain the sexual intimacy that
is so important in a relationship
Start
talking…
It's important to change the way you talk about ED,
as its not merely any ordinary health related problem.
Use words and ideas that don't challenge his sense of
masculinity or self-esteem. If you are having trouble
starting the conversation, here are some suggestions
that have worked for other couples: ·
"WE need to
talk about our love life…" ·
"Have you heard
about CAVERTA?" ·
"I have heard
that taking some medicines may affect erections
in men.. "
It will
also help if you make sure your timing is right. If
you've just tried to make love and your partner was
unable to achieve an erection, be sensitive. Try to
determine whether you can gently and lovingly bring
up the subject. If your partner is frustrated, embarrassed,
or upset, you should try to be loving and supportive,
and save the talk for another time. However, if your
partner seems to want to talk about it, seize the opportunity
and let him know that you still love him and you want
to help. You know your partner best. Find a way to start
talking about ED and try to set up an appointment with
the doctor.
Go
together to the doctor
If your partner is uncomfortable making the appointment,
you may want to make it for him. Before he goes to the
clinic, you may want to make it as easy as possible
for your partner to approach the subject with the doctor.
You may discuss ways to tell the doctor about the problem,
but its best to be straight and honest. Remind your
partner that there is nothing to be embarrassed about
when talking to his doctor. Generally, women are responsible
for most healthcare decisions among couples. So remember,
you may have to help your partner take the first important
step for both of you, by making sure he sees his doctor
and discusses treatment options.
CAVERTA
- It's the scientific treatment.
CAVERTA is, by far, the most widely used treatment for
ED. More than 16 million prescriptions have been written
for Sildenafil since its introduction in April 1998
and more than 5 million patients have turned to Sildenafil
as the ED medication that's right for them.
CAVERTA
really works. In clinical studies, up to 82% of patients
who took CAVERTA experienced an improvement in their
erections. Although it doesn't work for everyone, CAVERTA
does work for most patients regardless of what has caused
the ED, how long the man has had ED or how old the man
is. You must keep in mind the fact that CAVERTA is not
for everyone. If your partner uses nitrate drugs (often
used to control angina), never let him take CAVERTA.
His blood pressure could drop to unsafe or life threatening
levels. Common side effects of CAVERTA are headache,
facial flushing, and upset stomach. Less commonly bluish
vision or sensitivity to light may briefly occur.
