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A majority of ED cases are treatable, regardless of your age,
the reason why you have ED or how long you've had it. The
first step to moving beyond ED is to talk about your condition:
with your doctor and with your partner.
Talking
with your partner
Erectile dysfunction is a man's condition, but a couple's
concern. Often, ED causes an emotional rift between couples.
If you are unwilling to share your problems with your partner,
she may tend to think that you've lost interest or no longer
find her attractive. Opening up to your partner will clear
these misconceptions.
Keeping communication
channels open can help maintain emotional intimacy and encourage
emotional support. Many men find that their partners are very
willing to help them take the steps required to regain the
special intimacy that sexual sharing can bring.
Don't be afraid
to ask your partner for support. Men who involve their partners
in an open, caring discussion find their partners are just
as interested in sexual intimacy as they always were and are
willing to lend support. An open discussion about ED can help
alleviate many concerns you both may share. Making an appointment
and visiting the doctor together can help you overcome the
sense of anxiety or embarrassment that many men like you experience.
Partners of patients
with ED often assume that ED is a normal part of aging. Some
think losing interest in sex is a normal part of life. Many
feel that their partners no longer find them attractive. It's
important for both of you to remember that a majority of ED
cases are associated with common physical conditions, apart
from age. ED is a treatable medical condition and talking
about it with your partner can be the first step in rediscovering
intimacy.
With your partner's
support, you can realize that sexual intimacy is an important
part of your life together and see ED in the correct perspective:
as a physical problem, not a sexual or masculine shortcoming.
Many couples
have already turned to sildenafil citrate (Caverta) and rediscovered
sexuality, romance and intimacy. Before this however, they
took the first step: they communicated, shared and came closer
together.
With your
doctor
The best source
of all information and clarifications on ED is your doctor.
He can help identify the reasons for the problem and guide
you through the best solution. Do not be embarrassed or reluctant
to discuss ED with your doctor.
Don't hesitate
to be open and honest about any problems you have getting
or keeping an erection. Try to provide your doctor with as
much information as possible. Remember, there is nothing to
be embarrassed about. Your Doctor has most likely diagnosed
and treated ED many times and his goal is to help you recover.
If making an
appointment to discuss ED is embarrassing for you, schedule
a routine check-up instead and discuss your ED when you meet
with your doctor.
Some ways to approach the subject
may include:
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"Doctor, I'm having some
trouble getting erections and I'm concerned." |
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"My sex life isn't like
it used to be." |
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"I need to talk with you
about my love life." |
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"I have high blood pressure.
I heard that it could cause erection problems. Is this
true?" |
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"Is it possible that the
medications I take are causing me to have erection problems?" |
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"Can you tell me more about
CAVERTA?" |
Your doctor will
provide you with understanding, support, and most important,
information. By being open and frank with your physician,
you'll be able to effectively seek the treatment that is right
for you.
When you see
your Doctor it is likely that he or she will take a complete
medical history and perform a physical examination. Together,
you will probably talk about any medical conditions that you
may have and review any medications that you are currently
taking.
Here's what some
actual patients have to say about the difficulties of facing
ED:
If you think
you have ED, consider doing what millions of men like you
have done: talk to a doctor. Do not suffer silently; take
the first step…move beyond ED.
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